What to Do When Your Boyfriend Calls You Ugly
One thing you need to understand before I explain what to do when your boyfriend calls you ugly is this: Being called ugly by anybody – parents, family, friends, etc, is extremely painful. It is also absolutely false. Ugliness is only a perception and point of view. It holds no truth in the eyes of Source. People are free to have their opinion. But it does not mean you have to agree with it. You were created perfect and for a purpose. Don’t let anybody convince you that you are ugly unless you like to torture yourself.
The first thing you need to do when your boyfriend calls you ugly is to stop spending time with him and ask yourself: Why do I want to be with a man who does not love and appreciate who I am? It is immensely important that you give yourself time to really think about this. And I want you to write your answer down in a notebook or on a piece of paper. Here is why…
When I first embarked on my journey of self-discovery, I was not aware of my insane thoughts. I believe most of us were not taught to observe our thoughts because the people around us were ignorant of its importance. Yet, our thoughts determine our actions every moment of every day. This is why I urge you to experiment with writing down your thoughts. Give your thoughts a clear form so you can see ‘who’ is living in your head.
Once you have written down your reasons for choosing to be with a man who calls you ugly, I want you to put them aside and take them out to read the next day. It’s good to get some distance and revisit old thoughts when you are in a calm state of mind. When you do this, you may discover what you’ve written does not make any sense (and yet it is what you have been believing). The good news is, once you are aware of your thoughts, you have the power to choose differently, make new decisions and form new beliefs.
When you feel hurt or angry because your boyfriend calls you ugly, it is your emotional guidance system letting you know that there is something important for you to notice here. Your emotions are the way your Wise Self communicates with you. It lets you know something is wrong and that you have the power to change it. I strongly urge that you seek out someone older and wiser than you, whom you feel you can trust for support on what to do next.
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